Well, part of that is true of course. Honoria isn't perfect - and perhaps her biggest flaw is her carelessness when it comes to other people's feelings. Like you said, she's not a very good listener, and she does tend to make things go her way at all costs.

But she's not "the enemy" either. After all, Bertie never tells her that he isn't interested in her. His "Code of the Woosters" prevents him from "hurting her feelings" that way, but in that case how the deuce is she supposed to know that he doesn't like her?

So yeah. I guess she's just as flawed as everyone else. But if you manage to see past those flaws, I think you'd actually really like her ~