I was the prompt OP, and I agree with everything Eriptah just said, point 3 is pretty relevant for me, I have struggled with those urges in the past and frankly that's why I had posted it here, reading fics that deal with that where a character is rescued have helped me before, I was feeling down yesterday and that's why I had posted that prompt (not suicidal atm don't worry, I've been better for a few months now)
But yeah getting told suddenly that's not appropriate? It's not a nice feeling. :(
I get that it can be triggering to some which is why I had started my prompt with the trigger clearly written.