cuddyclothes: (Party Jeeves)
cuddyclothes ([personal profile] cuddyclothes) wrote in [community profile] give_satisfaction2019-05-24 03:02 pm

The Lounge

Welcome to the Lounge, a place to hang out with your fellows. Chat away. If you want to stay anonymous, go ahead. Real life, imaginary life, what you had for lunch, anything goes.

Moderation is off
IP Logging is off

The only rules are:
1) Be nice
2) Be nice
3) Be really nice

Everything else is okay!

For content questions, historical questions and any other content-related stuff, please use the Discussion And Fills Post.

This should be a safe space, so send me a PM if you need to.

Re: your fandom story

(Anonymous) 2019-05-27 08:12 am (UTC)(link)
What really makes me feel anxious about this community is not people clogging up threads with off-topic or things I'm not interested in, but people being told to better take their talk elsewhere and that leading to them worrying about bothering someone with what they post. I rather see them spam but have fun and connect. I only feel safe about reading the prompts, fills and anon commenting on them. And I think I should stick to that.

Re: your fandom story

(Anonymous) 2019-05-27 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, I don‘t mind some other topics being discussed either, if we can talk about our cultural backgrounds, why can‘t we talk about Star Trek or something else for a bit?
And aren‘t it always topic junctions and coincidences which lead to the really interesting conversations?

Re: your fandom story

(Anonymous) 2019-05-27 12:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I also don't see what's wrong with people mentioning other fandoms here, or why they should be called out like this for doing so. Especially in this case where it's still extremely relevant and brief. I don't think it "clogs" a lounge thread that's specifically for friendly discussion. The intro says "anything goes" even "what you had for lunch" but people get scolded if they talk about Star Trek for a minute? Seems like an arbitrary request.
Also I have no problem with people identifying themselves if they want to.

Re: your fandom story

(Anonymous) 2019-05-27 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
If there are topics I don't want to read about then I simply move on to the next. Just like with everything else here. If there's a pic of naked Stephen Fry and I don't feel like staring at it then I quickly scroll past it. If I know it's not my kink then I stay away from that kink. And if I start reading a fic but find out I don't like it for whatever reason then I simply stop reading it.

tldr The best approach is to pick out what appeals to you and ignore what does not but leave it be because it might appeal to someone else.